SantaBanta Post: June 2010

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

SantaBanta Agony Aunt Newsletter

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23 June, 2010

Friend's fiancée is a professional escort

I am known as a very decent guy, though I have seen few lady 'escorts' but people around me do not know this. Now, one of my friends had his engagement recently (arranged) and he showed me the picture of his fiancée. It is the same girl for whom I paid 25000 rupees a night. How do I tell my friend?

Is childhood abuse impacting me?

I had a really great childhood, but once I was in a theme park and I was on this big swing. Next to was this strange guy who started touching me. I was 9 yrs old n couldn't say anything. I felt very dirty after that. Now, at 21, I have issues with boys getting physical with me. Something in me stops me from doing things......I don't why!

Signs your man may be having an affair

Few straying men come home covered in lipstick stains and reeking of another woman's perfume. While the signs are rarely that obvious, if you're willing to look, they're almost always there. So how do you know if your partner's actually in the arms of another woman? Check out some changes in behavior that could mean he's looking for love elsewhere.

Husband doubts my interest in sex

Is it wrong to take interest in sex? After our first time sex my husband is very suspicious because I liked sex and was excited. He says that's not the way, the first time is supposed to be painful and nonsense like I had sex before and I cheated him etc. It seems as if my marriage is gong to be broken before it started.

10 signs she will be a bad mother

So, you've found a nice girl and you're thinking about settling down, having kids and living happily ever after. But have you thought about what kind of mother she's going to be? Being a girlfriend is not the same as being a mother. Luckily there are signs she'll be a bad mother, a series of red flags that you can spot pretty easily if you know what to look for.

Want to be bad but am cute!

I'm a regular college going boy. The problem is that all my female friends find me 'cute' but I've heard that girls like bad boys. I don't have a gf because of that. I tried to be a Bad Boy but all in vain. Can you really tell me if it's OK to be cute or should I take a crash Course on Bad Boyz by joining the Bad Boyz gang of my college?

The truth about Orgasms

An orgasm is a very enjoyable release of built-up tension and energy. Orgasms are different for everyone, making them difficult to define. Some people describe the sensation as a tingle, whereas others describe explosive feelings all over the body. Here are a few things that you may want to know. Click!

Husband won't move out of village!

I got married a year back My husband was very serious about me and when I said 'no', he blackmailed me emotionally and this forced me to say yes. The issue here is that he's from a small village and I'm from Delhi. My family agreed to the marriage because he promised that he would take me abroad after marriage, This has not happened and I've been suffering in this in this backward village for over an year now. . .

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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

SantaBanta Forum Newsletter

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11 June, 2010

Akshay Kumar flaunting his tanned, lean body

- hotfuntalk

All you Akki fans had better hold on tight, because here's Akshay flaunting his lean, tanned body for all you admirers to ogle at! He's so hot and sizzling that it makes the cheeks burn just t look at him. Theme for female fantasy is Akshay Kumar!

Most iconic dresses of the past 50 years

- sens

Here's a look at the most wonderful dresses of the 5 decades gone by. Dresses to swoon over, dresses that made long lasting styles happen. Worn by our favourite celebrities, from Audrey Hepburn to Jacqueline Kennedy, these are sure to wow even today. Have a look-see!

Vintage STD propaganda posters

- DesiCasanova

These STD propaganda posters were not very common, but they existed as a type of wartime propaganda of the '30s and '40s.The posters appealed to patriotism, family, morality, manly pride and outright fear to get enlisted men to take steps to avoid venereal disease.

Khelein Hum Jee Jaan Sey (Deepika, Abhishek)

- Preeto Maam

Khelein Hum Jee Jaan Sey is a Hindi Movie directed by Ashutosh Gowariker, which will star Abhishek Bachchan and Deepika Padukone in the lead roles. It is said to be a period thriller and is based on the book Do and Die by Manini Chatterjee, based on the Chittagong Uprising of 1930. The film is being shot in Goa and is scheduled for a worldwide release on 3rd Dec 2010. The music of the movie is being composed by Sohail Sen

Sleazy ladies of tinsel town

- arumita

All this while we've had the classy, sassy and sometimes bizarre fashionistas such as Lady Gaga featured in our galleries. But just as there can be no day without a night, tinsel town too has its share of those who dig the pits of fashion. Presenting the ladies of sleaze, without whom we would never have been able to tell the good from the ugly.

25 celebs before & after surgery

- Blueberry

First we find out there's no tooth fairy. Then about five years later we finally realize that Santa Claus isn't real. Twenty years later we find out that Vitamin Water is bad for you and almost all extremely attractive celebrities have had some sort of plastic surgery. Or as the great Chris Rock once said, "First the Fat Boys break up and now this. There's nothing to believe in anymore."

Etna swimwear summer 2010

- ignoramusenator

Etna is one of the biggest manufacturers of swimwear in Poland - and in the last few years, much thanks to the internet, they've started a movement towards continental Europe and even the United States. The collection is still very Polish (loads of push-up, loads of colors) - but as this is a big label, they're working hard on a more Western image!

Looking back at Bollywood in posters

- Bindas Badshah

Nothing brings back the essence of the times than movies do. They are the real documentaries of the times gone by. Collections of posters are exhibited with as much panache these days as rare paintings are and they sell for a high price. Take a look at the documentary of films.

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Wednesday, June 2, 2010

SantaBanta Agony Aunt Newsletter

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02 June, 2010

Want to have two wives

I am 27 yr old Hindu male. I am in true love with two women and I can't live without either of them. Choosing one among them is impossible. My love is pure and divine. We three get along well and have a good time and are ready to spend our life together. We are living separately now but soon plan to move in together. Is staying with two women and having sexual relation with them at the same time punishable by law?

Suffering from hair loss

I'm an 18 years old guy belonging to a Sikh family. I got my hair cut a year ago .before that I used to tie long turban and due to that. I lost my hair (side hair on forehead above the ears) of both sides. It looks bad. I have consulted many doctors but their advice proved to be useless Please tell me if there is any treatment to get my lost hair back?

Have twins! Birth control options ?

I am a father of twins now and they are now almost 1 month. My wife and I don't want any more kids for at least 5 years. I know condom is a good option but it will be very expensive. What can be another option, which will not harm my wife as well as save some money for me? We don't want to use pills because my wife is feeding milk to my kids. Please help us

I'm not her first choice

I got married six months ago. It was an arranged marriage. My wife wanted to marry someone else but her parents didn't approve. So she got married to me. Sometimes it feels very weird to me, when I think I am not her first choice. How to get rid of this feeling? We are living apart at the moment but she will join me soon.

Top 10 myths about men

What makes a man? Luckily, women can be strong advocates for change by encouraging men to evolve and expand beyond the stereotypes. Take a look at the 10 biggest falsehoods about men that, when debunked, can lead us to true masculinity.

Confused with her SMSes

Hi! There is a friend of mine from 6 std, now in same college. We are just good friend. Nowadays, she sends me an sms daily. They are the good night, friendly, quotations, take care and miss you smses. But she also sends me relationship sms. Is that a signal to go further for relationship? I'm very ervous ..

The worst possible marital problems

Marriage is an institution, though sometimes it can feel like a mental institution. All marriages are imperfect and most of them are imperfect in exactly the same ways. The list of marital problems you encounter in a healthy marriage isn't so long and most of them are pretty manageable. Whether it is infrequent sex or unwillingness to have kids or in laws problems, they can all be managed with some love and understanding.

My gf has too many responsibilities

I am 27 and am employed. I met her very unexpectedly. After initial talk we became close to each other. Then I asked about her family and to my disappointment I got to know that her dad died long ago and she has a lot of responsibilities and is the only employed person at home. Her burdens are so many that now I am confused whether if should get serious with her, marry her or not.

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