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LATEST UPDATES DEC 1, 2009       Will SantaBanta.com become Website of 2009? Santabanta.com has been nominated for a Website of the Year Award. Audiences will rate the quality of the websites of the nominees so its up to you all to make your favourite site the winner! To Vote for SantaBanta.com, click below: http://www.websiteoftheyear.co.in/vote.php?id=59               How to use a Lubricant? I am 23 male newly married. Last week I brought "Play Warming, Pleasure-Enhancing Lubricant" but I am not sure about how to use it. On the product also it’s not clearly mentioned. Can I directly use it on myself or is it just massaging lubricant for use on external body parts. Can I use it to lubricate my wife? Any side effects?               My mom is having an affair I love my mom very much. My mom talks to some man daily for 4 hours and hours some times while in the bathroom also. I don’t like it at all. I once read a message in her phone saying "r u having sex?” I know who that guy is. He is our relative. What shall I do? Should I say to my mom to stop indulging in such activities?               Husband wants me wear lingerie My husband has high attraction for sexy lingerie and he has bought some for me and he wants me to wear it. I think its weird and am very shy as most of them are too sexy and I am a little fatty type. He is also upset with me for being fat. He is pressing me to join gym etc. This all make me feel very down and whole sex thing is becoming a turn off for me.               Mother's love or hate? My mother and I never see eye to eye. I love my mother to death but deep down I know she doesn't love me. Anything I do for her isn't good enough, no matter how hard I work to make it work. I am so confused that many times I have thought of leaving home and going away. Many nights I sit and cry and it hurts when I see people being nice to their kids.               10 Ways to Stay Faithful Poor communication, unresolved issues, not maintaining outside friendships are a few factors that can weaken a relationship and convince one partner that straying is an attractive alternative. Its time to take stock of the relationship to make sure that you stay faithful!

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LATEST UPDATES November 18, 2009       Banned Indian ads – Preeto Maam If there was a hotness quotient for advertising, most Indian ads would at best rate as tepid. But then, for the authorities even the tepid occassionally gets unbearably hot and the cold water follows soon. We take a look back at the ads that were deemed unfit for public consumption.               The Sexy 2010 lingerie calendar – Fastidious Aubade unveils its most coveted annual calendar with compilation of the latest Lessons of Seduction images. Its hot, its beautiful and its oh-so-desirable!               Top 10 Sexy Southy Debutants – Rocky-10 South Indian screen, they say, is the friendliest celluloid terrain for a beautiful face to plan her debut. In South India, the demand for new faces is never-ending, and fans are ever-eager to applaud in new glamazons and even build temples for them. Here are the 10 debuts of 2009!               Bolly hotties unbuttoned! – Preeto Maam Passionate, fiery and oh-so-sexy, a shirt is a style of smartness and tremendous sex appeal at the same time. No wonder a shirt enjoys such a hot presence in the world of B-town babes, take a look at the fashion-forward leading ladies at their unbuttoned best.               Famous Politicians and Their Disgusting Bodily Functions – enjoy_lol The human body is disgusting. While some people have bodies that appear to defy the laws of gravity, the rest of the laws of physics remain firmly (or, on occasion, not so firmly) in place. What goes in, as they say, must come out. However, in the case of those in the spotlight, that which goes in often comes out in public.               Pop Stars stripping For Cover – Fastidious Singer Rihanna has sparked Internet frenzy by going topless for her new single Wait Your Turn.The cover jacket shows Rihanna with her left hand draped across her bare chest and right hand raised to the forehead. Check out which other pop stars have decided to shed!               Top 10 Tiny Tornados of Soccer – Rocky-10 WHEN it comes to the modern footballer, it seems the bigger the better. But despite the game becoming more and more about power, there has always been a place for the silky skills of the smaller guy. Sun Sport listed the best little maestros to grace the game in recent times, with the benchmark set at 5ft 7in and below.               The Cleavage Carnival – passion_unlimitedd Gorgeous babes that dare to flaunt. Gorgeous bodies that are toned and exercised into shape. And the most sexy dresses, showing cleavage! Isn’t that an irresistible combination? That’s why we bring for you the Cleavage Carnival. Check it out!

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LATEST UPDATES NOV 13, 2009       Preeto Maam's Guide to first time sex There can be a lot of pressure when having sexual intercourse for the first time. You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you have sexual intercourse. You may feel embarrassed or worried or disturbed. Here is a step by step guide to helping you through the first time!               Worried about unexpected sex incident I don't know what to do. Under some circumstance I got physically intimate with a guy who has a girlfriend and incidentally, that girlfriend is my close friend!! I never wanted it to happen, but it just happened! After this she hasn’t contacted me and I am worried               Married, but must pretend to be virgin I love a guy who is from my community. We both had sex and did court marriage. My parents found out and now they are getting us divorced. I’m scared that if they get me married to some1 else he might find out about the fact that I was married and so not a virgin…               Long distance relationship hassles I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. It has been 4 months since we have seen each other. I generally call him everyday and we talk quite a lot. Sometimes we fight and then my boyfriend never calls back so I fear that I will lose him.               Girlfriend bit me, is it problem? I have a problem. My girlfriend bit me last night at a place that I cant tell. Will it heal itself? Or should I do something about it? That area has redness around and is swollen now. I need help please               Son won’t allow me to visit his home I am 55 years old now. I have only one son, my wife died 5 years ago. He is married and lives separately. Around 8 years ago we had some argument about family property and he cut off all contacts with me. Now he has a child and its 4 months old, and I want to see my grandchild…

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LATEST UPDATES November 05, 2009       The most outrageous calendars of 2010 – Preeto Maam We look at some of the most bizarre 2010 calendars on the market. The themes of these calendars are so outrageous that they will blow your mind! We assure you that you can’t afford NOT to look at them. So hold your breath, and CLICK!               10 most uncomfortable movie sex scenes – Fastidious Take a look back at 10 of the most extreme and uncomfortable movie sex scenes. So crazy are some of them that they really had the audiences sitting up in disbelief! Check them out               Step into the future with Mercedes F700 – bondx99 Mercedes Benz F700 – a prestigious 4-seater car with the experimental economical gasoline-diesel engine. 5,17 m in length and spacious interior creates a comfortable environment for the trip. It has a “PRE-SCAN” suspension, which with the help of laser scans the surface in front of cars, recognizes and adapts to the road surface, (a feeling that you fly on the carpet). What a beauty!               Bollywood’s kissing Moments – Fastidious Smooch! Slurp! Kiss! Richard Gere kisses Shilpa, Kareena kisses Saif, Preity Zinta and Shah Rukh Khan shared an intimate moment in the song Main yahan hoon for the film Veer Zaara. For some voyeuristic moments, do click here!               10 of the World's Greatest Jobs – Chikoo.RocKstar What’s your dream job? A luxury bed tester? Or would you like to be a candy taster? And whats the qualification to be a professional prostitute tester? Take a look at the people who actually have these jobs that you and I can only dream of!               Most blatantly sexual pop songs – Preeto Maam Sexuality has always been Britney Spears' best weapon, and that's never been truer with the release of her video for '3' - a song that's essentially a 4-minute manifesto on threesomes. There’s a long line of sexually-charged pop hits that have made America's airwaves a little uncomfortable (and excited). Here are the most sex-in-your-face pop songs               Girl-on-girl action: Lingerie Football – miskozee If you’re interested in girl-on-girl action — and sports — there’s a new league that’s just the ticket. The Lingerie Football League offers players who could be the offspring of an NFL-Victoria’s Secret marriage. The Lingerie Football League (LFL) is a women's American indoor football league. See the action!               Famous celeb wardrobe malfunctions – Preeto Maam Divas, down the ages, have given us an occasional peek-a-boo at their assets. The more famous a celeb, more likely the occasional slip. Here are some of the classic slips...

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LATEST UPDATES November 1, 2009       The five rules of great sex Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Well, then turn your attention to a new book that provides tips on how to turn on your partner. Barbara and Allan Pease's new book, Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love, may come handy in making love life even sexier.               Love life harmed by old STD I am female 25 year old, I had an STD (disease which I can’t reveal, its not AIDS) which got from my past bf. He had connection with many girls but by the time I found and broke off it was late. But now I am fully cured. Now there is a guy in my life…               Smoking younger brother! I have a younger brother of about 13 years he got suspended for three days from school today as he got caught while smoking in the campus, I am 23 years old and a dentist, I don't smoke in fact stop people from smoking and my own brother let me down. He is very young although I have counselled a lot of people on smoking, I somehow find it awkward and weird to talk it out in front of him. How should I react?               Hubby treats like sex machine I am married since one year and in all this time we have sex only when my hubby wants to. I mean whenever he wants, I am supposed to be ready. He never asks if I felt something. If I try to show interest he will have some reason like headache, feeling tired etc. I don’t want to be a sex machine even if it’s for my husband. What can I do here?               Should I forgive my mother? My mom left us (dad, me and my kid brother) after she and my dad had a lot of fights and problems. She left us when we were young. She had a good job and she lived alone after that. Now I am 21 and on my last birthday, she sent me a gift and a letter that I and my brother must go and see her and she is terribly sorry for leaving us and she feel so lonely…               9 Signs your girlfriend is 'Miss Wrong' You have been going around with this girl for quite some time now, but still her demeanor or misdemeanor often leaves you with the question – Is she the one? Don’t fret! We bring you some signs to help you make up your mind...

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LATEST UPDATES October 21, 2009       Contest for pregnant beauties – enjoy-lol Just because your belly is expanding doesn't mean you can't enter a beauty contest. No more hiding behind tent-like dresses for pregnant women of the twenty-first century, Ms. Pregnant celebrates beauty with a bump. And yes, they parade in bikinis!               Sultry photo shoots of Bollywood babes (video) – Preeto Maam They are hot and they are happening and they are ready to bare all. Here are some of the Bollywood babes, posing and posturing for their photo shoots! Check ‘em out!               Sexy 70's ads – shivani2121 Our palates are so jaded and faded by the nude beauties flaunting it all, putting it all out there to see that its almost impossible to shock us anymore. Its hard to think of a time when sexy wasn’t synonymous with nude though it wasn’t that far back. Check out these ads to see how the concept of sexiness has changed!               When stars lost their virginity – Fastidious Angelina Jolie who lost her virginity at age 14 says that after having sex for the first time, "the emotions didn't feel enough," So to feel closer to her mate, she said she "grabbed a knife and cut him." Read more here.               Weirdest food from around the world – Preeto Maam Fried tarantulas anyone? Maggot infested cheese? No? Look away then, if you are having your food for here is a list of some of the strangest food specialties from around the world.               Celebrity Sex Scandals – bariisto Paris Hilton's reputation for being famous for being famous was multiplied by the release of a sex tape called "1 Night in Paris" with Shannen Doherty's ex-boyfriend Rick Salomon. Does that grab your attention? Well, there’s lots more in here!               Hottest item numbers of 2009 – Preeto Maam Indian movie when the viewer gets exhausted of "emotion, romance, drama and tragedy". It is that time of the flick when the Dolby surround panel gets alive, and the screen transforms itself into a dance floor! 'Jhatka's and 'matjka's rule the screen! Here are the hottest item numbers of 2009!               The 10 Most Annoying Alarm Clocks – bondx 99 It hangs above your head and starts climbing while it rings. Don't wake up fast enough, and you won't be able to shut it up without a ladder. Sounds irritating? Then you’ve gotta see just how irritating it can get. Click here!

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